Wednesday, February 15, 2012

IDunnoWhatToNameThisPost

Harloo people. Have neglected this blog for quite long. It's time for an update since today is a special day.
Its valentine's day, so here I am wishing everyone Happy Valentine's Day. To the couples, may love grow deeper and the bonds between both parties grow stronger, and to the singles, may there be a bloom of love in your life. Even if you need to stay single, there is always a reason for that. Relationship can be something really complicated to handle. Its not a bad thing to stay single ;)
Love made us stupid. I have to agree on that. In life, we meet the right person at the wrong time and the wrong person at the right time. People say falling in love is easy but staying in love is hard. But I do not agree 100% for that. I think falling in love for the right person is not easy at all.
A friend once told me, some girls always go for good looking guys (I think that applies to guys looking for pretty sexy girls too) it’s a mutual thing. He told me if a guy can treat you well, always there for you and etc, then you should give it a shot to try rather than going for some guys which may look good but can never treat you as well as the first one could.
But as for myself, I have another thought. If I need to treat a person well in order for that person to love me more, it simply shows that one day when I never treat that person well anymore, does that mean he will not love me anymore? An immature thought of mine perhaps. But what's right is  "If you love someone, prove it. Because love is not a noun to be defined, but a verb to be acted upon"
Love is supposed to be simple, why is it becoming so complicated now?
In life, the right person falls for you but you make him the wrong one, putting high expectations trying hard to make him the perfect one. But when he's gone, you realize it’s not easy to find someone who loved you so much and you loved him too. Sooner, you found yourself the person you have long-awaited for, someone right almost to perfect, someone you knew that there will be a great future with.  But love is funny, because when you thought you could fall in love, your heart chooses not to. When it comes to relationship, somehow the heart is always stronger, taking control of the mind. That’s why when people fall in love, they do stupid things. Eventually, time passed by and you found yourself having an intense emotional attachment for the wrong person. Someone you should never be with at all. It's harder when your feelings grow for someone you know you should never love.
And is sparks a good start to everything?
Definitely not.  I've spoken to a friend this morning, he was telling me about him having sparks for a girl, but soon to realize it turns to fire and destroy everything. Well, spark sparks up fire so it's not really that good after all. 
I guess after you have read this, you might not understand what exactly I wanted to share and find this post confusing because I am living in confusion right now.

One of my favourite song. It somehow calms my crazy emotions 





 Sungha Jung is just amazing, looking so effortlessly playing the guitar. 




Okay time to sleep. Bed is calling me :)
Happy Valentine's Day once again 


Love,
JoLin

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