'Have to' or 'Want to'

When we 'have to' or 'want to' leave, should we be dancing with the stars or shedding tears with the rain?

Of coz when we 'have to' leave, we probably would be shedding tears.
Leaving 'having to' is like we are force to do something we don't want to do yet we have to do it for some reasons.

I've seen people who leave with tears.
Not just watery eye, not just a drop of tear but tears shedding down the cheek continuously.
Being speechless because there were no more words to express that feeling.
Looking far ahead, thought came to mind thinking whether the decision made was right or wrong.
But then again, decision has been made.
Words have been said.
Its too late for us to take back the things we said. (We should really think before we open our mouth to speak)
There were true sadness in the eye.
Couldn't bare to leave however, its too late to change everything but can only end the past with a hug and a kiss goodbye.
Is this called as 'have to' or 'want to'?
I don't know.
There are many question marks coming through my mind.
But I chose to remain silent. Not to question anymore.
All I know is humans are full of confusions and they changes all the time.
They are not easy to understand, that's what makes each human so different and special.
People always assume that girls are difficult to understand unlike the guys who are so simple.
But I wouldn't say that.
Sometimes u'll never know what a guy is thinking.
But according to 'Russell Peter', guys don't think when they are silent. The brain becomes empty or blank !
So don't ask a guy what they are thinking when they keep silent.
Because they will tell you NOTHING !!! ahahhahahaha
Guys are the logically thinker whereas the girls think with their emotions.
"Men are from mars and women are from venus". So it wouldn't be easy for guys to understand girls and vice versa.
So do I. I just don't understand them.
But to me, guys or girls they are still humans and humans are confusing SPECIES



My old time favorite song..♥♥♥♥


Love,
Jo♥

Shoes

Yes..shoes it is for this post :)

I like ballet flats a lot and flip flops too and sandals as well.

That is what you'll probably see me wearing.

I don't wear heals because I don't know how to walk with them. Heehee

Okay...my dog just farted. So smelly !

Back to shoes..

I've posted before on summer sales in UK.

http://leejolin.blogspot.com/2010/07/summer-sales.html

If you've never read this. Take a look :D

In that post, I said that I'll stop buying shoes because I've reached number 7 which is my fav number,

But..............................

I lied............................... oh nooooo!!

I bought a few more.

But this time not ballet flats, but its sport shoes !

Blame 'sports direct' for having discounts, it burns a hole in my pocket.

My collection of Nike shoes.

A person only has a pair of leg and only NEEDS a pair of shoe.

But I can't RESIST myself from not buying those because they were very cheap.

I am not rich but I felt guilty not buying them. *Kill me, pls*

(Hey !! don't TSK me coz I know you guys will buy it too if you were there. Hehehe)

Tsk! tsk! tsk!

Shoes for sale.

ANYONE????? hahahha

I collect fridge magnet.

Missed out some of them.

There is one more which is also the most important one. That is Sheffield's

I actually forgot to buy that so I asked my friend to get it for me but till now its still with him. Sigh Sigh

I cant wait to stick another one on my frigde..it makes my fridge looks livelier !

Goodnight and sleep tight people.

Time to oink oink

Love,

Jo♥Lin

The RM5

I have a question for you peopleeeee

Wondering what question??

My title sounds weird, I know.....heeheee

Have you ever lost something which is precious to you? It could be anything of yours.

How was the feeling like?

What is your reaction over your lost?

Are you thinking now?? Cos you better be !!

Let me share with you a story of mine.

There was once I took RM5 out for dinner. I wore a short which the pocket has a hole and I totally forgot about it.

Guess what?? Yup yup yup....as expected, I dropped off my RM5 and only realize it when I got back home. (I did not spend the RM5 on my dinner).

I lost it !!!!!!!!!

What was the first thing that came into your mind when you lose something?

Mine was, “I could have use the money for another meal….AHHHHH….. I could have ordered 3 types of drinks at the mamak stall instead of sharing it or sometimes I don't order any.....AHHHHHH”

I know RM 5 is not a big amount but normally what comes into our mind is if we pay RM5 for other purpose, it’s worthwhile but if we pay RM5 for NOTHING, it’s not worth it at all. Besides, I was still a student at that time.

SOooooo I was like “ how careless was I, how can I forget about the hole and bla and bla and blaaaaaaaaaaa....

Most people will give us the advice of "nevermind la, its just RM5..u could easily use that up in one meal.”

What would be your advice?

A friend gave me an advice which most of us never thought of.

He said, “Its okay, your money could be a blessing to the one who found it. Don't be sad over what you have lost because that person might need it more than you do.”

WOAHHH !!

His advice was indeed a meaningful one for me to think over my lost. Loosing RM5 was nothing, because I have learned something from it and at the same time, that person who found it might really need it more than I do.

“When one door closes, another opens, but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed doors that we do not see the one which has opened for us.” Alexander Graham Bell

Every mistake made, should not be a regret to us because it is the mistake itself that we can learn to be better.

Look at the positive side ;-)

So, are you thinking now?? you better be !! LOL .....

Love,
Jo♥Lin

A birthday to remember

HarLOooo my dear readers :) I have successfully made my blog into a ............. erm, museum keeping only the historical stuffs I guess?

I have this plan to update about every places I've been and what happened during the trip when I was in UK, but due to some time constrain I put it on hold, however when time allows, I don't really remember exactly what to write and I got lazy to recall back, so that is why my blog became a museum...heeeeeeheeeeeeheeeeee

Okay, so this is what happens. I went to church on Sunday and there is a birthday celebration for the OCTOBIES (October + Babies ). Octobies sounded really cute..don't they? So mine will be Augusties......yerr =______= I still prefer OctobiesSo I've decided to blog about my 22nd birthday. For those who din't know how old am I, I am 22 this year and I still wish I am 18 right now :p.

It was a great pleasure for me to celebrate my birthday this year in UK. Although my family was far away, but I have my good friends with me. It was one memorable day to remember :)

Everything started 2 days before the actual date of my birthday. My friends who were going to be busy on the actual date took the initiative to celebrate my birthday earlier. It was a surprise from them as they told me to go for a dinner since we left only a few weeks in Sheffield. We went to Weatherspoon Restaurant.

Before I went to UK, I've never finished a can of beer before. The most I drank was maybe 150ml?? I don't really like alcohol. But alcohol was very cheap there and the westerners drink it like how we Chinese used to have 'tea'. I got influence and now I could finish a bottle of beer.

Oh noooooooo....bad bad!

Cheers people

FOOD FOOD FOOD

The before and after picture of SAUCES...we took every single type of sauce to try. Hah, this is the true Malaysians ;-)

Thank you my dear friends for celebrating it with me though I know you guys were busy.

One big hug for you people... :))

p/s:: i dint know my hands can stretch so loooong..scary :O

And I've got a really cool birthday cake...hahahah...nobody has ever had that kind of cake I think...

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TADAAAAA !!!!

Wedges !!! They actually bake wedges for me and gave me all the left over sauces as my birthday present. LOL

Me and my specially made birthday cake and pressie...hahahaha

You guys are just funny and kind of creative too !!

"A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked."

AHHHHH....!!!! I cant believe I am 22 already..time flies, but I still feel like 18 though... HAHA

That's not the only thing they do for me..they did a lot more...

Tong sui.

This is sweet potato with ginger...Even though I don't quite like it but I was force to drink. =_________='''

This is what friends are for, forcing you to do the things you don't like when they know its good for you. Ginger is good to cure nausea as well as effectively helps in cramps caused by stomach gas due to digestion problems. So after consuming ginger, you are gonna puuuuuutttttttt...most people does but I don't, I just buurrrrrrrrrrrpp...heeeheee..coz farting makes people faint ah!!

This is what they cooked for me...BAK KUT TEH !! and another type of tong sui, sweet potato with sago and condense milk. How sweet ❤ ❤

I was then in my room online and dreaming that my prince charming would come with his white horse. HAHA... just joking lah.

I was looking at my facebook, msn and sms wishes and replying each and everyone of them..........

...................and then in a sudden, my room lights were switched off and my friends came in with a cake.. a REAL one this time !! I am truly blessed....am so touched as well..almost cried...HAHA

That's the cake and my super messy room... *paiseh :p

Its vanilla with strawberry...my fav..!! and it tasted really really good. I can just eat the cream like that...ho chiak and I am kind of tam chiak too so...hahah..anything which is edible to me is nice =D

What makes me happy was the thought they had. They knew they were going to be busy, so they celebrated it earlier with me. They remembered my birthday would fall at the time when we were in UK and one of my friend actually took lighter there. Thats the thought they have for me.

p/s:: I really appreciate everything you people did :)

I ended my night eating tong sui :)) slurpppps

And the next day I got a surprise which I totally never expected !!

YUM YUM YUM......Ice cream and a cake from a friend which I forgot to take pics of.

Talking about ice cream, I had a total of 6 pints of ice cream. 4 Haagen-daz and 2 Ben & Jerry =D As a result, I gained weight!! hahahahahahhah

I am crazy over all the smileys...they are just so so chubi XD

Love,

Jo❤Lin

Hotel California

I ♥♥♥ this song

Love,

Jo♥Lin